Relationship Coaching – EMDR Therapy – Energy Healing – Intimacy Coaching

Book your Intimacy Retreat Now!!!!!!

Give yourself and your loved one the gift of intimacy. Take three solid days off to focus on your intimate connection with your beloved partner. Book sessions to ensure this practice is unfolding… Sessions can be booked in person in Santa Fe, Taos, or Las Vegas, New Mexico or on VIDEO/PHONE. Text Annette at 505-652-7633 to schedule a free 15 minute phone session.

Hands of Light Healing ® Workshop

A two-day experiential workshop based on Dr. Barbara Brennan’s book, HANDS OF LIGHT. Learn practical concepts, hands-on healing methods, and skills to regulate your energy and help you sense the Human Energy Field.

Healing Relationships Workshop

A two-day experiential workshop based on Dr. Barbara Brennan’s book, LIGHT EMERGING: The Journey of Personal Healing. Optimize Your Health and Well-Being and Overcome Dis-ease in Relationship with Yourself and Others.

Summer 2020 in Santa Fe, New Mexico
Denver, & Metro Detroit

Annette Gates, MEd is a healing relationship coach & educator. She offers two decades of expertise in one on one coaching and teaching about healing relationships, sexuality, and grief and loss. As a Master of Education in Human Sexuality from Widener University her propriety coaching practice and workshops have empowered hundreds toward their healing path. 
Educational Timeline:
  • By Sept 2020 LMSW able to accept insurance.
  • EMDR Therapist since October 2019
  • Grief and Loss Specialist since September 2019
  • Brennan Healing Science Practitioner since 2009
  • Hands of Light, Light Emerging, Core Light Healing Workshop Leader since 2018
  • Master of Education, Human Sexuality – Widener University since 2018
  • Master of Clinical Social Work – NM Highlands University, May 2020
  • Somatic Sex Educator – Advanced Institute on Human Sexuality Studies since 2008
Other credentials since 2010: Ordained Minster, Shamanic Practitioner, Shambala Reiki Master and Trainer, Past Life Regression Hypnotherapist

Prior to 2010 Annette held a successful career as a life coach and human resources executive where she used HeartMath and Landmark Education to affect positive change in the workplace.


Relationship Coaching – Relationship Coaching, Sex Coaching, EMDR Therapy

Contact and Practice

Annette’s relationship coaching practice is physically located in Northern New Mexico where she holds workshops, phone, video and in person sessions in Santa Fe (MOST Thursdays – Sundays), Las Vegas, and Taos. 

Please fill out the form to the right if you are interested in registering for workshops, programs or working with Annette. Also if you are inquiring about the Dragonfly EOLD (End of Life Doula) Training Program. She will answer inquiries regarding her practice. workshops, and programs within one week.

Coaching sessions are a sliding scale of $120-$80/hr. The nature of coaching is educational and transformative with homework practice to help you in healing your relationship life. Annette is a trained and certified sexuality educator and specializes in working with folks that struggle with sexual issues in relationship. All her work with folks is fully clothed and based on at home practices with yourself or with a partner. Please fill out the form to request a free 15 minute coaching session. 

Here is a link to Annette’s FREE practices, mp4 breathing video and  mp3 breath journey

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Stay tuned in August of 2020 for Annette’s relationship and sexuality blog with parts of her memoir as she writes Memoirs of a Sexologist with accountings and prescribed sexual practices from over a decade as a practicing sexologist in San Francisco and NYC.