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Relationship & Sexuality Therapy
Licensing Supervision
Heal relationships and be free!
Breathing Practice full audio 50 minutes with body poses
(last 25 minutes is the breathing only)
BBSH School Week Breath Sequence Recordings CLICK HERE
Spiritual & Past Life Regression Therapy
New Mexico – Durango – NYC – LA
Hello, I’m Annette Gates, LCSW-S, MEd, CSSE, CGC. All those letters show my dedication to holding a safe space for healing your relationships. Understanding and healing deeply held familial and ancestral patterns and beliefs can create transformational change. I’m not your normal talk therapist. I am a healer, seer, and teacher. I see your true self and facilitate your healing. I work with others on my team who align in the same way.
My private practice serves clients seeking private therapy; traditional, spiritual, and past life regression therapy. As well as EMDR therapy, and much more. I am a certified sex therapist and a master of education in human sexuality. As a licensed clinical social worker-supervisor, social justice, cultural humility, and empathy are woven through my psyche and the team I work with.
I am faculty at the Barbara Brennan School of Healing. A global transformational healing school. The school and workshops are my chosen vehicles for facilitating transformation for others. Please visit my Workshops/Meditations page.
Listen and receive the recent Eternal Cord Healing.
Healing meditations are focused on healing relationships and yourself. They help you regulate your energy and support your healing from the inside out.
Currently live healing meditations are on a pause as I expand my teaching and supervision capabilities. Please peruse the Google Folder with audio healing meditations recorded since 2021.
Interested in a transformational healing community?
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Interested in working with me? Or someone on my team?
Please schedule a free zoom consult.
If you or someone you know is experiencing overwhelming anxiety or loss, reach out to talk to someone free and anonymous at 505-954-1057. Help is available. Crisis Counseling for New Mexico.
Call or Text 988
Contact and Practice
I am currently taking new clients and take most insurance in New Mexico, Colorado, Arizona, and Connecticut, including Medicaid. I plan to take New York and California insurance by summer 2026.
My sessions are mostly on Zoom OR in person in Gallup & Farmington, New Mexico and Durango, Colorado OR quarterly in-person sessions in Santa Monica and NYC
- All self pay sessions are $150 per 50-minute session. Sliding scale. My rate for individual and couples sessions are the same.
- My rates for BBSH student BIP sessions are different. Please schedule a free zoom consult.
- Need clinical supervision? Please schedule a free consult.
RESOURCES ::::::::::
Love Making Life: A guide for healing your relationships and sexuality
Schedule a confidential, free 20-minute consultation to understand how this guide can help you.
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Relationship Resources:
The Healing Power of Forgiveness – at UU Santa Fe
Listen to an interview with Annette on Spotify
For anyone. 12-step groups are great for understanding yourself, others and our patterns in relationship. I’ve been an active member of 12-step recovery from the family disease of alcoholism for over 25 years. Phone, zoom, and in person meetings are everywhere. Google the group of your choosing…
For couples in recovery, check out RCA (Recovering Couples Anonymous) meetings, books and resources. INVALUABLE!!!!! And it’s FREE!
Here are links to a few resources from the Gottman Institute. Explore the site. There are wonderful resources for parents too. Free Gottman Newsletter. Webinars. 30-day Relationship Program. Online Relationship Intensive.
The Gottman Institute Podcast is great too!
Parlor Games
Women need science, solutions & sisterhood for the second half of life. They are saving the world, one vagina at a time.
AH! YES®
Intimate certified organic products which respect and care for the vagina & vulva. Designed to be side effect-free, natural and pH matched to the vagina.
Please request the link for adult educational video resources. Email me at annettegates@gmail.com.
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MY Calendar
Book here
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2026 Online Zoom Barbara Brennan Workshops
Cost $100
Core Light Healing – Zoom
TBA Summer 2026
Saturday & Sunday
10am until 2pm MT (Denver, Co timezone)
Explore the nature of the creative process from the Human Energy-Consciousness perspective. Discover how we create blocks in our energy field that cause dysfunction. Understand the process to clear those blocks and release creative potential. Learn about ancestral healing.
Light Emerging – Zoom
TBA Summer 2026
Saturday & Sunday 10am -2pm MT
Go deeper into perceiving your needs on every level of your energy field and how you can participate in your self-healing process and healing relationships. Learn about relationship chord healing.
RELATIONSHIP and all issues, concerns, and desires are the focus of all workshops. No need to do them in order. Your order is DIVINE! Understand the energy field and high sense perception in HANDS OF LIGHT WORKSHOP. Self-healing and relationship chords in LIGHT EMERGING WORKSHOP. Ancestral healing in CORE LIGHT HEALING WORKSHOP. Heal yourself and your relationships and BE FREE!
I no longer teach Hands of Light workshops. There are EXCELLENT HOL workshop leaders offering classes/workshops all over and on zoom.
Check out BBSH website for Hands of Light Workshops
Learn the basics about spiritual healing: the human energy field, chakra system and high sense perception.
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FREE Transformational Course Modules
From Transactional to Transformative Relationships: What’s going on? – Module 1
Understand deeper: your complaints, persistent thought patterns or desires. Get relief through guided meditation and forgiveness exercises.
Know thyself: What is reciprocity? – Module 2
What is communication and reciprocity? Understand your needs and values. Learn tools for communication and how to increase intimacy with your partner and yourself.
Dive Deeper: Taking inventory – Module 3
Knowing yourself and your values, needs and communication more deeply. I guide you through taking personal inventory. You will learn about your areas to let go and values to cultivate, with Brene Brown’s Wholehearted Inventory and your love languages with Dr. Gary Chapman’s 5 Love Languages.
Learn some coping tools for emotional regulation. Take Dr. Diane Poole Heller’s Attachment Styles Test. Use this to increase intimacy with your partner/spouse and yourself
Understand Your Trauma – Become a healing partner
Venture deeper into our roots. Through becoming trauma informed, we can heal ourselves and help our partners heal. Simply setting the intention of holding a ‘safe space’ as we become more aware of ourselves and our own patterns, it is healing; not only for ourselves, but for our current and future partners. We live in a shame-based society where we all experience trauma because of our upbringing, societal images, and lack of education. This often compounds already held trauma in the body that plays out in our experience of our sexuality. This affects our relationship patterns. Who we attract and bond with. You will learn more about your attachment style and how it affects your past and present relationships. Your trauma understandings will unwind in your body and create more space for your sexual life force energy. Your passion!
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Sexual Intimacy Resources:
Listen to an interview with Annette on Spotify
The Healing Power of Forgiveness – at UU Santa Fe
LINKS IN YELLOW
Parlor Games
Women need science, solutions & sisterhood for the second half of life. They are saving the world, one vagina at a time.
AH! YES®
Intimate certified organic products which respect and care for the vagina & vulva. Designed to be side effect-free, natural and pH matched to the vagina.
Please request the link for adult educational video resources. Email me at annettegates@gmail.com.
Communication in Relationship Resources:
For anyone. 12-step groups are great for understanding yourself, others and our patterns in relationship. I’ve been an active member of 12-step recovery from the family disease of alcoholism for over 25 years. Phone, zoom, and in person meetings are everywhere. Google the group of your choosing…
For couples in recovery, check out RCA (Recovering Couples Anonymous) meetings, books and resources. INVALUABLE!!!!! And it’s FREE!
Here are links to a few resources from the Gottman Institute. Explore the site. There are wonderful resources for parents too. Free Gottman Newsletter. Webinars. 30-day Relationship Program. Online Relationship Intensive.
The Gottman Institute Podcast is great too!